What
makes me a person someone would want to message on an online dating site? How
do they know I'm even telling the truth? Yes, I do enjoy intellectual
conversations, Yes, I believe that evolution and creationism should be taught
side-by-side in school, No, I don't do hard core drugs...and I believe it's
awkward that you do, and finally, No, I don't think it's any of your business
how much alcohol I drink. All of those are questions that OK Cupid asks you
(plus about 500 more you can choose whether or not to answer), and based on
those answers you get a compatibility score that ranks from Match to Friend to
Enemy. I happen to have a 95% date rate (I.E. I'm a pretty solid match- COME AT
BRO!).
Anyhow,
I set up my profile today and I had very awkward moment. One of the questions
they ask you (that is soon displayed on your main profile) is "What are
good at?" Realistically what I wanted to say was: spending money,
polishing my nails, lounging...hard, talking, talking loudly, texting, watching
Netflix. What I said instead was: taking life as it comes, make french pressed
coffee, hammocking, chaco tanning. Also, it took me and a friend about 25
minutes to come up with that short list so...things got weird when we realized
I'm not good at anything helpful/real/useful.
Another
one of the questions was "On a typical Friday night I am:" what I
should have said was "in bed by 10 because I am real adult with a
job" what I said instead was "debating wether or not to go out"
which is true but let's be honest...it's not the truest of the two.
After
reading my profile over again I thought to myself "Heck ya I'd date that
girl! She's carefree and fun! And maybe even kind of hipstery!" Then I had
a moment of self reflection where I asked myself "hmm is this really who
you are, Leigh?" Then I told that self reflective weirdo to shut it up and
keep it moving...it's time to get a date.
Honestly
though, most of the information is very accurate...right? Anyhow, after about
10 minutes of being LIVE on OK Cupid I had 2 suitors!! You'll have to stay
tuned to hear about how these guys are but SPOILER ALERT: one of them sent me 8
messages in 2 minutes...no I didn't respond...I didn't have a chance... and the
other guy lives in....DRUM ROLL PLEASE...england...so that's super helpful...and
convenient...NOT.
It’ll
be fun, right?
xoxox more soon,
Leigh
This is going to be an interesting journey!!!
ReplyDeleteIt'll be something. : )
DeleteThis made me laugh out loud. Please keep updating. Also, I met my boyfriend online and we've been together almost three years. It can work. You just have to be patient and have a good sense of humor (which you do!).
ReplyDeleteI certainly will keep updating! I'm glad to hear that there are some success stories out there!! : )
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